7 Ways to Capture Wisdom From Your Coach
EMail This Post Published by Michael November 1st, 2006 in Life Coaching
A coach is a modern-day mentor. In Greek legend, MENTOR was a friend of Odysseus. As advisor, sage and counselor, he was entrusted with the education of Telemachus, the son of Odysseus.
A coach is a faithful, wise, devoted advisor and teacher. A coach is a loyal resource. A coach engages experience and sagacity in the service of whoever chooses to engage the coach.
Dual mastership is rare. So you very likely can benefit and move ahead even faster by having a coach. These seven strategies help you get the most out of your connection with your coach:
- Start by being sure you have a coach. Virtually all great performers in every field of endeavor engage a seasoned veteran, someone who knows the game inside out, upside down, backward and forward. Let the experience and insights of your coach keep you on the high road to your objectives.
- Trust your coach. A worthy coach has been around the track more than a few times. This person has your best interests at heart. Reveal your challenges, your frustrations, your roadblocks to your coach. Share your vision, your hopes, your ideal place in the sun. Then listen to the words, the ideas, the guidance your coach sets forth before you.
- Engage the insights of your coach. Take the actions recommended by your coach. Sometimes you won’t understand why. Take these actions anyway. Look at it this way: When you drive down an Interstate Highway, you are often passed by truckers driving 18-wheelers. They roar on ahead, certain they are safe and right. How do they do that? Well, for one thing, they’re sitting about five or six feet higher in the air than you. They can see farther ahead. And, they are in continuous radio contact with their fellow truckers for miles in both directions. They know what’s going on where they are going before they get there. So will you when you act on the insights of your coach.
- Develop your professional performance as recommended by your coach. Did you ever see a batter change his stance after a few words from his coach. And then see his batting average go higher? Of course. How do you suppose a great ballerina gets so graceful? Believe me, with all the natural ability in the world, she doesn’t see into the design and intent of the choreographer of the piece the way her coach does.
- Refine your choice of markets to penetrate in accord with the insights of your coach. Your coach knows your business. There may be emerging markets you never thought of targeting. These markets may be in the sunrise industries, industries just at the beginning of their ascendancy. Picture yourself growing as these markets grow. Imagine yourself becoming an industry expert, even the industry expert.
- Go after the specific companies your coach sees as best for you. (Imagine that in the early 1980’s your coach suggested that you go see the college-dropout founder of a new software company he just named Microsoft. That company is hiring lots of people who need what you have. BINGO!)
- Develop your long-term strategy to build your career in concert with your coach. Odds are that your coach has a vision of the possible for you transcending your own. Your coach, like the driver of the semi-truck next to you on the Interstate, can see beyond the horizon you see. And when you make it big-time, your coach will bask in the glow of your success. A great coach takes no credit, accepts no credit. A great coach insists that since you were on the field of play, since you were the one making the moves, the credit all goes to you.
Burt Dubin is president of Personal Achievement Institute, http://www.SpeakingBizSuccess.com, publisher of the Speaking Success System, Speaking Strategy Reports, Speaking Success Reports, Inner Circle Letter, Professional Speakers Profit Letter and SpeakingBizSuccessLetter. Check out the many downloadable articles on his site. Why figure it all out for yourself when someone who has traveled this path is available to provide guidance, mentoring, hope, direction—and understanding. Feel free to call Burt Dubin, at 800-321-1225.
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Hi Burt. Do you know Burt Reynolds? I’d love to think you two just hang out together. The Two Burts. That’s got a cool ring to it. Could be a movie in it or at the very least a reality tv show. Enough small talk, I’ve stopped by your blog for an important reason - to mock you and laugh at what you have written because I don’t like people pretending to be life coaches. That’s a made up job to scam people out of their last few dollars when they most likely genuinely need professional career, financial, relationship or physcological help. Not just some jack of all trades generalist tinkering around the edges with some motivational hooha especially hopefully not by someone with a self proclaimed brand name moniker like The Balanced Life Coach. When I opened up this web site and your video started playing that was comedy gold for me. Anyway, I’ve got other life coaches to annoy, you people are spreading like wild flowers. Please stop what you are doing, get a real job and stop being a disservice to that great name of yours. Do you really think Burt Reynolds would have a life coach or approve of anyone who had one? Enough said. If you are still operating in this shameful industry in 24 hours I will open my own life coaching consultancy to prove you need no knowledge, skill or qualifications to be a life coach and that is just being paid to be someones freind. My company will be called Dreams Can Come True Technology Inc and I will be known as The Greatest Life Coach in the World.
Our dear friend Jess does have a valid point - many in the self-help industry offer few solutions and instead focus on the hyping of hope. We all so badly want to believe in miracles. That’s what makes us all vulnerable. And that’s what makes the likes of Dr. Phil and Tony Robbins so wealthy.
The Life Coaching Industry is even more dangerous, since thinly credentialed “experts” dispense worthless or even counterproductive advice on everything from mental health to relationships to diet to personal finance to business strategy. Americans alone spend a staggering $10 billion a year on self-help programs and products.
My hope is, though, that as you get to know me, you will see I am more concerned about providing you with suggestions and guidelines than trying to empty your pocket.
It is people like Jess, who insist on always finding fault, that will never live a fulfilled life. She is so focused on negativity that she attracts more of the same into her life. While I appreciate her taking the time to write, she has not added any creative input or constructive criticism. Instead, her rant is purely to allow her to post a link to her (less than stellar) site. This world will always be full of naysayers, and it’s my job to help you navigate around them.